Warning: If you are offended by words, please browse away from this entry. Please and thank you.
There is a shirt I really want to get for my girls to wear that says, "Watch your fucking language there is a goddamn baby in the room". [
link] I think it's just so cute. Mind you, a lot of people might not find the humour, especially some of the older generations.
However, I've decided against censorship in my house. It's just something I think it pointless. In fact, I hate censorship in any form. I don't like that one might have to do things differently to appease society's ideals. I know there is a question of respect that comes into play with you disregard the social standards, but I rarely do anything out of ill intent.
When it comes to those 'curse words' I just have to laugh a little. I mean, why are these words EVEN considered bad to begin with? They are just words, simple sounds and letters we have placed together. They are nothing solid, though I will say they can be damn good weapons.
The intent of the words, sometimes, are negative. I get this. However, if you replace the word with something else, you have the same intent, just different words. "That's bull shit, " and "that's crap," is the same meaning, just sugar coated.
I think censorship is counterproductive, as well. It makes it seem more desirable from the outside. It paints this picture of it only being allowed to special people, or adults.
I am not offended by cursing, though I know some people are.
I am not bothered by my daughters saying curse words. Actually, it kind of makes me laugh.
Shit, in the end they'll probably pick it up from school, any ways.
I am trying to train myself away from telling my children they cannot do (or in this instance, say) something. I want them to know the world, for what it is, and make the decisions they feel are best.
These are just my thoughts on this subject.
I don't understand a lot of society's boxes, so I don't bother to try to fit in them.
I think, when all is said and done, that words are words. I can do just as much damage using no curse words as I could using them. It's the intent behind them that make them mean anything more than simple barbaric noises.
--For more on the subject, look into works by George Carlin. :)